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A little girl’s memory of a very special
Hatteras Christmas
By MARY ELIZABETH GRAY
What
excitement! Grandfather announced that the Christmas Candy
Drummer would come that day. There were very few visitors on
Hatteras Island because travel was so difficult. There was a
ferry which was the only way to get to the island, and there were no
paved roads. Usually people who had business came on the mail
truck. They had to spend the night with a family on the
island.
The Christmas Candy Drummer would be staying with Grandmother and
Grandfather. Grandfather said the Christmas Candy Drummer’s
name was Peleg Midgette from Weatherly’s Candy Co. I
immediately pictured a man with a wooden leg like Long John Silver in
"Treasure Island."
Every year the Methodist church passed out a bag of candy and fruit to
each person in the village. This was done on Christmas Eve at a
celebration at the church. There would be a huge tree decorated
with tinsel and colored balls and the dolls the girls would receive for
Christmas.
When the Christmas Candy Drummer showed up, he didn’t have a
wooden leg, not even a slight limp. There was none of the
heartiness of Long John Silver, but he had a kind manner and smile for
the little girl. When he opened the black bag he was carrying,
there were no pieces of eight but a kaleidoscope of colors of
candies. There was such an assortment — red and green
striped peppermints, orange and pink peach blossoms, white square
coconut candy, and, best of all, huge chocolate drops you could lick
for hours, savoring the taste of the bitter chocolate and sweet, sugary
fondant. Candy was in short supply on the island, and this seemed
to be a treasure trove. Grandfather checked over each flavor of
candy, figured the cost, and put in the order for the church.
Grandfather also ordered apples, oranges, and nuts to be included in
the bag. I sat on the wood box next to the small iron stove that
heated the living room and watched intently. Wonder of wonders,
the Christmas Candy Drummer chose a handful of the candies and
presented them to me. Even though Grandmother would carefully
ration them, it seemed that Christmas had come early.
All the children on the island were anticipating Christmas. It
meant a respite from school, presents to look forward to, and the bag
of goodies that were a sure thing even if the presents didn’t
materialize. Mother had already had a talk with me, telling me
that I was now too old for dolls and would be getting clothes for
Christmas instead of toys. I really needed a new warm coat since
my current one was too small and my arms hung out from the
sleeves. I accepted Mother’s statement, recognizing that
this was to be, but in my heart, I longed for a doll to replace the one
my brothers had cut apart to see how the eyes worked and the crying
mechanism was installed.
The candy had arrived! Mr. Eph had sent word to Grandfather that
it was at his store. After closing time, people would gather to
pack the bags.
"Can I go with you, Grandfather?" I begged.
"Well, if you are quiet and behave yourself," he replied. "You know I always say..."
"Yes, I know. ‘Children should be seen and not heard.’ Oh, I will be very good."
That night Grandfather gathered up his lantern and Grandmother put so many sweaters on me that I could hardly breathe.
"I won’t be cold," I told her.
"Now mind, don’t get in the way, and don’t get up to any mischief," warned Grandmother.
The night was dark and cold, and my feet slipped in the sand as I tried
to keep up with Grandfather and the small light from the oil
lantern. It was a moonless night, and the stars seemed far
away. The yaupon and myrtle bushes rustled and seemed to reach
out in the dark. The cold north wind created mysterious noises
and tried to penetrate all the clothes I was wearing.
There was a small crowd at the store when we arrived. Mr. Eph had
a Delco generator that he operated to provide lights and a cold storage
room where he kept a few meats and other perishable items. There
were several young girls and boys there, as well as Mr. Eph and Uncle
Charlie. This was a gathering for courtship as well as
work. The only acceptable social occasions were church and the
occasional birthday party. The girls were giggling and flirting
with the boys. This was a social gathering for them. Uncle
Charlie organized everyone into a line. One person opened the
brown paper bag, one weighed the candy, one put in an orange, one an
apple, and another counted a few nuts and put them in. Uncle
Charlie counted the bags as he put them into large cardboard
boxes. Mostly the girls did the work, while the boys stood around
poking at the girls and making them giggle.
Uncle Charlie was a great storyteller and made a party out of the
gathering. He told ghost stories as if they had happened to him
personally and with such sincerity that I was afraid to go out into the
dark even with Grandfather. The favorite was the story of Uncle
Charlie and the lady on the white horse. Uncle Charlie was
returning from an unspecified visit on a dark, dark night and when he
was riding through the dense Trent Woods, he suddenly saw a lady on a
white horse riding noiselessly beside him. He asked her who she
was, but she gave no answer. He struck his horse and urged it on,
but the lady kept pace with him. He raced his horse as fast as it
would go, but it was not until he was out of the Trent Woods that the
lady on the white horse no longer rode beside him.
When the bags had all been filled and the group had all slipped away by
twos, there was just Grandfather and Uncle Charlie left to go
home. They walked on ahead with the light, talking about the
Christmas Eve service. The dark night was even darker without a
moon, and the wind had picked up and moaned through the yaupon bushes
that crowded the sandy road.
"Uncle Charlie, did you really meet the lady on the white horse?" I asked.
"Sure I did, child. The moon was shining through her, and she
kept up with every step my horse made. I wouldn’t look at
her face, though. That would have been my death. I rode my
horse as fast as it would go until we were out of the woods.
Horse was dead next morning though. Guess he faced the white
horse."
Grandfather just laughed.
"I know what you were running from, Charlie," he said.
They both laughed all the way home.
Christmas Eve was here at last! The younger children were all
gathered at the church for one last practice for the Christmas
program. One part of the program consisted of a row of children
spelling the word "Christmas." Each child had a letter with a
verse. Needless, to say, the two Barnett cousins were in the
middle of the row, and Elton would always forget his verse and Eldon
would get the giggles and start the whole row to giggling. At
least, they would provide entertainment for the crowd of parents and
families that would be at the church.
There was excitement at the door as several men came in with the
Christmas tree. It was a huge holly, almost reaching to the
ceiling of the church.
We hunted out the box of tinsel and ornaments to go on the tree.
The huge gold rope was crushed and tarnished but it would look good
draped over the tree with lamplight shining on it. The tree was
hung with the shiny balls and tinsel, but the men waited until the
children left before hanging the dolls on the tree. The dolls
were Christmas presents from the families and were hung on the
tree. They would be taken from the tree one by one and given to
the girl who was to receive it.
When we got to the church that night, it looked like a fairyland.
The oil lamps were lit all around the walls of the church, and the tree
was laden with golden balls, tinsel rope, and dolls nestled in the
branches of the holly. I hated to look at the tree because there
would not be a doll for me.
My best friend said: "I’m getting a Shirley Temple doll. What does yours look like?"
I swallowed and said, "Dolls aren’t fun anymore. I’m
not getting a doll. I’m getting a new coat with a
reversible lining."
She gave me a look and charged up to the tree to check out the dolls
that were hanging. She nodded her head very confidently when she
found a Shirley Temple doll and began to check the tags on the other
dolls.
I whispered in her ear: "You aren’t supposed to peek at the tags."
"Well, guess what, Mary? There is one with your name on it. Don’t you want to know which one it is?"
"I told you. I am not getting a doll this year. I really don’t want one."
She only smiled rather smugly.
After the children had presented their program, Uncle Charlie walked up
to the boxes of candy bags and began calling the names of each person
in the community by family. Everyone received a bag of candy, and
there were bags for people who were unable to come to the
service. Church members would deliver them on Christmas
Day. Then some of the men began to remove the dolls from the tree
and would hand them to Uncle Charlie and he would call out the name on
the tag.
I looked on as my friend got the Shirley Temple doll and tried to
swallow the hard lump in my throat. Then Uncle Charlie called my
name. He was holding a small doll dressed in white. It was
Emilie, one of the Dionne quintuplets. When I looked at the tag,
it sure enough had my name and then Grandmother’s name.
Grandmother had been saving Octagon soap coupons and Sweet snuff
coupons for a long time to turn in for a new set of dishes, but somehow
she understood a child’s heart and decided a doll at Christmas
was more important than plates that matched.
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